Helping Gay Men . . .
Make Friends,
Build Confidence, and
Free Themselves from Shame
with the 10-Week Shame-Free Gay Life Program
Meet Your Coach
At the age of 25, I was engaged to a woman to be married. To the outside world, I looked happy, only much of it was a facade.
During the pressure-cooker of the engagement, I realized that I was living a double life, and I only 6 months before the wedding, I came out of the closet. At that time, I figured my life would be easy, but I quickly realized​ that my life didn't get easier, but rather more authentic. The joy was more authentic, but so was the pain.
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After coming out, I felt incredibly lonely, and my self-esteem was lower than ever. I kept trying to fit into the mold of what other people said a gay man should be like, only to be left feeling even worse about myself. ​
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After realizing that I still wasn't happy, I began to put in the work to change that. I mastered tools to figure out who I am, not who others wanted me to be. I began to build my confidence, and in doing so, I started to build a community of others who saw and supported me, not in spite of who I am, but as and because of it.
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Today, I couldn't be happier. I have a wonderful community, I am married to the love of my life, and I can say with 100% certainty that I love being gay. Furthermore, I've made it my mission in life to help other gay men get to that same place of confidence and community as well.
Your Shame-Free Gay Life
The Shame-Free Gay Life Program is built upon the Triangle of Connection. True transformation happens when you feel deeply connected - to yourself, to others, and to something greater.
Self - This means more love for yourself, and less worry. I will personally walk you through step-by-step how you can have a different vision of who you are in this world, not a vision that others want for you. It's about more confidence, so that you can walk into every room feeling good about who you are.
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Community - It's not about the "Me," but rather the "We." You will meet other gay men who value your values. In doing so, you will become more confident in who you are, you will feel worthy of belonging, and you will make great friends along the way.
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Higher Power - In this work, we eliminate the fear of the future, focus on the present moment, and put our faith into something bigger than ourselves. Men who go through this program come out feeling more joy and a clarity of purpose than ever before. ​
Self - This means more love for yourself, and less worry. I will personally walk you through step-by-step how you can have a different vision of who you are in this world, not a vision that others want for you. It's about more confidence, so that you can walk into every room feeling good about who you are.
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Community - It's not about the "Me," but rather the "We." You will meet other gay men who value your values. In doing so, you will become more confident in who you are, you will feel worthy of belonging, and you will make great friends along the way.
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Higher Power - In this work, we eliminate the fear of the future, focus on the present moment, and put our faith into something bigger than ourselves. Men who go through this program come out feeling more joy and a clarity of purpose than ever before. ​
What are some of the benefits?
What You Can Expect
in the 10-Week Shame-Free Gay Life Program
This journey looks different for everyone, but most of the men in our program see life-changing results in three powerful areas:
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Friendship & Community
You’ll finally stop feeling like the outsider. Inside this program, you’ll build meaningful friendships with other gay men who truly see you. You’ll learn how to connect from a place of authenticity, not fear, whether that’s in group settings, one-on-one, or just showing up as yourself in everyday life. Loneliness gets replaced with a sense of belonging.
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Confidence & Self-Worth
You’ll stop hiding parts of yourself to fit in. Through mindset work, inner healing, and identity-affirming tools, you'll let go of shame and step into your full power. Whether you’re in a crowded room or home alone, you'll learn to like who you are, and trust that who you are is enough.
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Dating, Sex & Relationships
You’ll start navigating intimacy with clarity, confidence, and care. Whether you’re new to dating, stuck in patterns that don’t serve you, or trying to build something meaningful, we’ll help you get clear on what you want, what you deserve, and how to ask for it, without guilt, fear, or games.
